Is the Swinging Lifestyle for Everyone? SWINGING CANNOT FIX A BAD RELATIONSHIP! If either of you is already having an affair.... or is unreasonably jealours.... or distrusts your mate .... or keeps the other up all night long accusing him or her of wrong doings, then this lifestyle will only make your problems(s) EVEN WORSE! If you as a couple have any of these or similar propblems, you should avoid the Swinging Life-Style completely! ON THE OTHER HAND, HOWEVER, SWINGING CAN AND WILL IMPROVE YOUR RELATIONSHIP AS A COUPLE if you are totally honest with each other in every way. OPEN COMMUNICATION is the most important part of a couple's relationship. You should be able to talk about anything and everything, whether it's good or bad - without worrying about the consequences, knowing all the time that your partner is going to be understanding. If yours is a loving, caring, sharing, understanding relationship with totally open communication - then this SWINGING LIFE-STYLE can and will improve and strengthen your relationship as a couple. EVERY COMMITTED COUPLE (MARRIED OR NOT) have asked themselves this question at least once - especially in the beginning! Swinging is not a "cure-all" for problems that a couple may already have, and this is the main reason that we stated many times before: THE SWINGING LIFE-STYLE IS NOT FOR EVERYONE!"